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]]>I can’t say one way or the other that the 20 years healed either her or me. But I got tired of trying. from that point on, I took care of myself. Then covid hit, and a frank discussion on how short life is, broke the ice. but I was exhausted. She is most definitely, a puzzle.
Therefore I would never suggest the “cold war” to anyone. that was my choice,, Financially, Divorce may not be an option. Divorce to me never seemed realistic ,, but I think I chose the correct path.
on the other hand, life is short. there is no one size that fits all answer.
No Matter the situation, Put yourself first, and take care of yourself. Then understand that for your relationship to succeed, your Love for her, becomes a verb. you have to do so through your actions toward her. and learn to suck it up. I know of no other way.
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