Comments for Modern Love Counseling™ https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/ Relationship Counseling for Couples and Individuals in Denver, Colorado. Sun, 02 Jun 2024 11:00:59 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.4 Comment on Why Does She Keep Bringing Up the Past? by Avonlea Bahia https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/why-does-she-keep-bringing-up-the-past/#comment-1496 Sun, 02 Jun 2024 11:00:59 +0000 http://www.modernlovecounseling.com/?p=1388#comment-1496 hello everyone i am willy

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Comment on Why Does She Keep Bringing Up the Past? by Fact https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/why-does-she-keep-bringing-up-the-past/#comment-1478 Tue, 30 Apr 2024 19:31:51 +0000 http://www.modernlovecounseling.com/?p=1388#comment-1478 Many women unfortunately have a one track mind.

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Comment on Are My Expectations Too High? by Talha Ubaidullah https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/are-my-expectations-too-high/#comment-1476 Wed, 24 Apr 2024 09:42:48 +0000 https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/?p=2082#comment-1476 Jazakallah. Navigating expectations in relationships can be a complex journey. It’s essential to strike a balance between self-awareness and compassion for both ourselves and others. Seeking understanding and professional support can pave the way to healthier connections and personal growth.

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Comment on Are My Expectations Too High? by Alysha Jeney https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/are-my-expectations-too-high/#comment-1472 Wed, 10 Apr 2024 02:35:44 +0000 https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/?p=2082#comment-1472 In reply to Bobbie Boharski.

Are you a resident of Colorado?

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Comment on Are My Expectations Too High? by Bobbie Boharski https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/are-my-expectations-too-high/#comment-1467 Sat, 30 Mar 2024 02:14:00 +0000 https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/?p=2082#comment-1467 I’m shocked that the whole unhealthy expectations list is me. I’m at a loss as to where to start changing this. How do I find help with a limited income?

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Comment on Stop Trying To Fix Everything in Your Relationship by Samira nair https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/stop-trying-to-fix-everything-in-your-relationship/#comment-1457 Tue, 12 Mar 2024 10:53:35 +0000 https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/?p=3066#comment-1457 Relationships aren’t about fixing everything; they’re about understanding, respect, and compromise. Focus on communication, not control. Listen to your partner, express your feelings, and find common ground. Embrace the dos of dating—like honesty and kindness—and steer clear of the don’ts, such as manipulation and neglect. Let love flourish naturally, and cherish each moment together.

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Comment on How to Keep a Relationship Alive by Samira nair https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/how-to-keep-the-spark-alive/#comment-1456 Mon, 11 Mar 2024 09:37:17 +0000 https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/?p=2857#comment-1456 Great read! These dating tips are like a breath of fresh air in the online dating scene.

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Comment on How to Keep a Relationship Alive by Samira nair https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/how-to-keep-the-spark-alive/#comment-1455 Mon, 11 Mar 2024 07:14:43 +0000 https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/?p=2857#comment-1455 Discover expert advice on online dating and maintaining the spark in relationships. Explore innovative ways to ignite and sustain romance in the digital age. From virtual date ideas to communication tips, find everything you need to keep your connection vibrant and exciting. Dive into our insightful guide and watch your love story flourish.

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Comment on Why Does She Keep Bringing Up the Past? by relationshipsgoal https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/why-does-she-keep-bringing-up-the-past/#comment-1442 Mon, 19 Feb 2024 02:57:46 +0000 http://www.modernlovecounseling.com/?p=1388#comment-1442 This is a very insightful article, Alysha. It’s clear that you’ve put a lot of thought into understanding the dynamics of conflict resolution in relationships. Your emphasis on the importance of validation and understanding, rather than just trying to “fix” the problem, is particularly noteworthy. It’s a reminder that effective communication is key in any relationship, and that acknowledging and validating each other’s feelings can go a long way in resolving conflicts and fostering a healthier relationship. Thank you for sharing your expertise. Looking forward to reading more of your work!

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Comment on Why Does She Keep Bringing Up the Past? by Dave https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/why-does-she-keep-bringing-up-the-past/#comment-1441 Mon, 19 Feb 2024 00:42:39 +0000 http://www.modernlovecounseling.com/?p=1388#comment-1441 Long ago I finally put my foot down, after being brow beaten about past things she could not reconcile between us. ,. then began a 20 year cold war. Turns out I wasn’t the only one , but she chose me, and we married.

I can’t say one way or the other that the 20 years healed either her or me. But I got tired of trying. from that point on, I took care of myself. Then covid hit, and a frank discussion on how short life is, broke the ice. but I was exhausted. She is most definitely, a puzzle.

Therefore I would never suggest the “cold war” to anyone. that was my choice,, Financially, Divorce may not be an option. Divorce to me never seemed realistic ,, but I think I chose the correct path.

on the other hand, life is short. there is no one size that fits all answer.

No Matter the situation, Put yourself first, and take care of yourself. Then understand that for your relationship to succeed, your Love for her, becomes a verb. you have to do so through your actions toward her. and learn to suck it up. I know of no other way.

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