Comments on: Things to Try if You Don’t Feel Heard : 5 Ways to Express Yourself Differently https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/things-to-try-if-you-dont-feel-heard-5-ways-to-express-yourself-differently/ Relationship Counseling for Couples and Individuals in Denver, Colorado. Sat, 21 Oct 2023 20:55:39 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.4 By: Anonymous https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/things-to-try-if-you-dont-feel-heard-5-ways-to-express-yourself-differently/#comment-1362 Sat, 21 Oct 2023 20:55:39 +0000 https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/?p=1751#comment-1362 I do all these things and still I feel like I’m a bad parent with their child. He’s not neglectful of love but refuses to believe that we both need to grow up. I feel I’m trying to do this by going to work and washing myself and my work clothes and paying for our food. All I ask is that I don’t come home to an empty cupboard when he’s unemployed and has 10 hrs of me working to buy food with my card. But he says he’s looking for jobs (which he is bless him), but for 10 hrs? I know I am quick to get agitated so I don’t know how to express the change without him shutting off from me and going on his pc because hes upset with me for nagging at him everyday when I praise him twice as much as with many many other things. But they’re emotional and he doesn’t seem to understand no matter how many times I address it. I am very much a person that will put myself in another’s shoes always but sometimes even when I do that I’m being ignored.

]]> By: Sonika Schroeder https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/things-to-try-if-you-dont-feel-heard-5-ways-to-express-yourself-differently/#comment-1025 Thu, 26 Aug 2021 19:43:27 +0000 https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/?p=1751#comment-1025 Going to use this advice on family members who give me the cold shoulder when I want to talk about my kids whose hurtful behavior is killing me. I feel completely dismissed by their reactions and words. I never get as much as an “I’m so sorry you’re hurting”. I think an acknowledgment of my pain and the situation is all I need.

Thank you for this article

]]> By: Fazal Mayar https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/things-to-try-if-you-dont-feel-heard-5-ways-to-express-yourself-differently/#comment-784 Wed, 29 Jul 2020 23:00:06 +0000 https://www.modernlovecounseling.com/?p=1751#comment-784 Thanks for this piece

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